The cultural reaction to the Supreme Court’s ruling on same sex marriage has not calmed any seas around me. I’m still hearing intense, aggressive statements from both sides. No need to summarize them here. You’ve heard them, too. But where do I find myself in the middle of it? Repentant. Confessing. Why? Because I wonder if we, the community of faith, have been part of what pushed this. I’m not talking about negative and less than compassionate dialogues and debates. I’